“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” — Dr. Seuss
An authentic vibe leads to resonance.
Resonance leads to a meaningful relationship.
Relationships start with two important ingredients:
Be true to yourself.
Be true to others.
Being true to yourself means...
Dropping fictional facades that give people the wrong impression
Prioritizing your dreams and aspirations over what is expected
Being kind to yourself so that you may give kindness to others
Consuming and creating things of interest
Being true to others means...
Showing interest in people you are actually interested in
Being fully present when engaging in conversation
Leading with the gift of your creations
Helping instead of converting
The vibe you put out is what attracts others.
If that vibe is full of fakery, then you attract the wrong people. You deceive them and yourself! The relationships you form are empty and meaningless.
If that vibe is the authentic you, then true resonance occurs. You attract fellow travelers. They attract you.
Do this long enough, and amazing people come into your life... the kind you always dreamed of meeting but feared would never materialize.
🤔 Food for Thought:
What vibe are you sending out?
Does it represent the real you?
Are you attracting the right people?
⚙️ One Small Step:
The best way to meet fellow travelers is to put your creations out there frequently. After all, if you do not sing with your true voice each day, how can anyone hear you? And if the song of another resonates, give them the gift of what you value.